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These 55 Gift Ideas Are Perfect No Matter What Stage of the Relationship You’re In

Whether you’ve been on one date or a thousand dates, there’s something here your person will love.

By Brooke Shunatona, Jamie Ballard and Daisy Maldonado
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It's a fact: Finding the right gift for someone isn't always easy. And finding the gift for your special someone can be extra tricky. Like, what if you've only been on one date when Christmas or their birthday rolls around? What if they're like a FWB that's become something more and you're not sure if you should get them something for V-Day or if that's weird? What if you've been together forever and you're just outta good ideas? Don't worry, because I've got gifts for every stage of the relationship right here.

Whether you're searching for the perfect thing for their birthday, an anniversary, Christmas, Valentine's Day, or some other occasion, there's sure to be something here they'll love. From perfect long-distance relationship gifts to thoughtful gifts that you'll also get to enjoy, there are plenty of picks. We've also made sure to include some gift ideas under $30 if you're trying to stick to a budget, along with some more luxe items if you're looking to spoil 'em. No one knows your person like you do, so you decide if you should go with something sweet and sentimental or something so super-useful and practical they'll smile and think of you each time they pick it up.

Without further ado, here are the best gifts for every stage of your relationship.

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This Date Night Bucket List

Gift Republic 100 Dates Bucket List Scratch Poster

100 Dates Bucket List Scratch Poster
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This Date Night Bucket List

Gift Republic 100 Dates Bucket List Scratch Poster

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Looking to spice up your date nights? This scratch-off poster is full of unique date ideas so your Friday nights never get old.

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A fun, fill-in-the-blank book

Compendium Publishing & Communications I Wrote a Book About You

<i>I Wrote a Book About You</i>
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A fun, fill-in-the-blank book

Compendium Publishing & Communications I Wrote a Book About You

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After years of gift-giving, you might feel stuck when it comes to giving a creative, thoughtful gift. This book is the perfect solution. It gives you plenty of fill-in-the-blank prompts about your favorite person. And hey, you know this is something they don't already have!

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This Get-to-Know-You Game

Topix Great Conversations

Great Conversations
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This Get-to-Know-You Game

Topix Great Conversations

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These thought-provoking conversation cards are especially great for when you're still getting to know each other (or if you just want to dig down deeper).

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This Customized Zodiac Pendant

Birthdate Birthdate Pendant

Birthdate Pendant
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This Customized Zodiac Pendant

Birthdate Birthdate Pendant

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Here's a birthday gift they definitely don't have already! Each of these Birthdate pendants has a special arrangement of gemstones based on the recipient's birthday. It makes for a super thoughtful gift they're sure to treasure for a long time.

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This drinking game for couples

DRUNK IN LOVE Couples Drinking Game

Couples Drinking Game
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This drinking game for couples

DRUNK IN LOVE Couples Drinking Game

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Whether you've been dating two weeks, two years, or two decades, you can have fun with this drinking game for couples. You'll draw prompts like "Drink if you wear the pants" or "Switch clothes with your partner for three rounds, or drink twice." We see a fun date night in your future with this.

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These Intimate Deck of Cards

BestSelf Co. Intimacy Deck

Intimacy Deck
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These Intimate Deck of Cards

BestSelf Co. Intimacy Deck

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If you're hoping to deepen your ~connection~, let these cards guide your conversation into more meaningful topics.

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These mini travel essentials

Pinch Provisions Mini Travel Kit

Mini Travel Kit
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These mini travel essentials

Pinch Provisions Mini Travel Kit

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By gifting this travel essentials kit, you're not not hinting that you should take your first trip together. Cough, cough.

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A nice pair of earbuds

Apple Apple AirPods Pro

Apple AirPods Pro
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A nice pair of earbuds

Apple Apple AirPods Pro

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If they haven't sprung for Airpods just yet, you can win all the points by getting them a pair. Pro tip: Apple's probably going to have some sweet Black Friday/Cyber Monday deals, so if you can, wait until then to buy.

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This gift for Swifties

celestialwishes Taylor Swift 'Eras' Sweatshirt

Taylor Swift 'Eras' Sweatshirt
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This gift for Swifties

celestialwishes Taylor Swift 'Eras' Sweatshirt

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Even if you lost in the all-out war that was trying to get tickets for Taylor's tour, your favorite Swiftie will still love this sweatshirt showing the different eras of Taylor Swift.

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this custom video game organizer

SerdarWood Personalized PS5 and Xbox Stand

Personalized PS5 and Xbox Stand
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this custom video game organizer

SerdarWood Personalized PS5 and Xbox Stand

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This personalized gift gives them a space to leave all their gaming gear, which I'm guessing will also be a gift to you?

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This bestselling picnic blanket

Scuddles Extra Large Picnic & Outdoor Blanket

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Extra Large Picnic & Outdoor Blanket
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This bestselling picnic blanket

Scuddles Extra Large Picnic & Outdoor Blanket

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Nothing says "let's have a cute picnic date" like this durable blanket. Set it up under the stars for a very romantic evening.

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This Orgasmic Vibrator

Wild Flower Enby 2

Enby 2
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This Orgasmic Vibrator

Wild Flower Enby 2

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The Enby vibrator is an especially great gift if you wanna heat things up. It’s a flexible vibrator that’s meant to be used by people of all genders. So you can hump it, use it to stroke different body parts, put it between you while you’re having sex, use it in tandem with a dildo or other toy — the only limit is your imagination. We foresee a *very* hot date night in your future.

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This Funny Coffee Mug

CuteButRude "I Could Have Annoyed You Longer" Mug

"I Could Have Annoyed You Longer" Mug
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This Funny Coffee Mug

CuteButRude "I Could Have Annoyed You Longer" Mug

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Have you passed the lovey-dovey honeymoon phase and settled in nicely to the brutally honest stage of your relationship? A funny mug like this one lays it all out on the table.

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These Bestselling Slippers

BRONAX Cloud Slippers

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Cloud Slippers
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These Bestselling Slippers

BRONAX Cloud Slippers

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Oh, these? Just one of the most popular gifts of the entire year! I mean, who wouldn't love a super comfortable pair of slippers??

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These long-lasting flowers

Urban Stems The Naomi Bouquet

The Naomi Bouquet
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These long-lasting flowers

Urban Stems The Naomi Bouquet

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Sure, flowers are nice, but they tend to only last a week or so. But this eye-catching arrangement from UrbanStems will last for much, much longer.

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These Matching Bracelets

Tarsus Magnetic Couple Bracelet Set

Magnetic Couple Bracelet Set
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These Matching Bracelets

Tarsus Magnetic Couple Bracelet Set

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The perfect gift for a couple in an LDR, these adjustable nylon bracelets with magnetic charms attach when put together and serve as a sweet reminder of your other half when you’re apart.

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This portable speaker

Raycon Raycon Speakers

Raycon Speakers
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This portable speaker

Raycon Raycon Speakers

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Everyone needs a good portable speaker. You can play romantic tunes at home while you make dinner together or do other ~activities~ or take it with you to a park or campsite and listen to your favorite songs while you look at the stars. How romantic is that?

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These Bucket List Ideas for Couples

Flowjo The Couple's Bucket List

The Couple's Bucket List
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These Bucket List Ideas for Couples

Flowjo The Couple's Bucket List

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Let’s be honest, it’s easy to fall into the same routine when you’re happily coupled off, but don’t forget to try something new together every once in a while. This bucket list game for couples will give you plenty of inspiration.

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this pastel accessory

kate spade new york Sadie Small Shoulder Bag

Sadie Small Shoulder Bag
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this pastel accessory

kate spade new york Sadie Small Shoulder Bag

If your babe loves a pop of color, they’ll absolutely swoon over this lilac handbag that's ideal for the spring and summer months. It's got a zip closure, a removable shoulder strap, and a back slip pocket inside.

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This portable fireplace

FLIKR Personal Concrete Fireplace

Personal Concrete Fireplace
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This portable fireplace

FLIKR Personal Concrete Fireplace

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This brings all the cozy vibes of a fireplace to their home without, you know, a home renovation project. I see a cute s'mores date night in your future once they unwrap this unique gift.

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Brooke Shunatona

Brooke Shunatona is a contributing writer for Cosmopolitan.com.

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Contributing Writer

Jamie Ballard (she/her) is a freelance writer and editor who covers news, lifestyle, and entertainment topics, including sex and relationships, TV, movies, books, health, pets, food and drinks, pop culture, shopping, and personal finance. She regularly contributes to Cosmopolitan, Woman’s Day, Good Housekeeping, and YouGov, among other publications. When she’s not working, you can find her running, traveling, or scrolling TikTok. Follow her on Twitter.

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Associate Shopping Editor

Daisy Maldonado is an associate shopping editor at Cosmopolitan who loves writing about fashion trends, must-have beauty products, and digital culture. When she's not writing, you can almost certainly find her shopping (she knows her credit card numbers by heart) or obsessing over celebrity news. Although she’s acquired an extensive closet over the years, her favorite item she owns is a Harry Styles Love On Tour hoodie she purchased at his concert in Manchester. Daisy's work has appeared on Refinery29, The Daily Beast, E! News, Allure and more. Keep up with all of her chaotic travels, NYC life and fashionable moments on her Instagram. 

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