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Falling for a Taurus? Who could blame you?! Ruled by Venus (the planet of love and romance), this celestial bull is all about the good life. They're luxurious, romantic, and they've got excellent taste. If you ever end up in their bed, you'll realize it's the comfiest place that has ever existed—Taureans won't settle for scratchy sheets!
These earth signs have a reputation for being stubborn, and yeah, they are, but let's face it: they're probably right! So go ahead, let them win the argument. But before you step into the proverbial ring with sensual Taurus, there are a few things you must know.
So what’s a Taurus looking for in a relationship?
Simply put, Taurus loves to be in love. From candlelit dinners to long-stem roses, couples massages to long walks on the beach, this earth sign is enthralled by romance. And if Taurus’s idyllic #RelationshipGoals feel too good to be true—well, they’re not. You can guarantee an Instagrammable courtship with this earth sign (I mean, c’mon, they’re governed by Venus!). When it comes to matters of the heart, this bull takes bonds very seriously…but ironically, that’s where things can get a bit tricky.
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Not into gravity blankets and movie nights? Is bathing in lavender oil not your thing? It may sound extreme, but that may actually be a deal breaker for this sign. Unlike Taurus’s astrological predecessor (Aries), Taurus doesn’t fall in love for fun—this sign is in it for the long haul. Suffice it to say, Taurus has a very specific idea of what relationships “should” look like. And if your romance style doesn’t align with theirs, well, it might be game over.
How do they behave in a relationship?
On the outside, Taurus may seem relaxed and ~luxurious~ (after all, every single one of their beauty products smells like patchouli). But Taurus also knows the value of the dollar. They don’t just seek stability in partnership—they demand structure in every area of life. This earth sign works hard to earn rewards, so they expect their partner to share their financial goals. Taurus feels more secure when money is steadily flowing into a savings account, which mirrors their behavior in relationships. Security is absolutely paramount for this sign, and any threat to structure will cause a Taurus to see red.
If Taurus is known for one thing, it’s their signature hardheadedness. If you think about it, it makes sense: It takes a lot to make bovines budge. What Taurus perceives as “stability” often translates (to everyone else) as “stubbornness.” So if you don’t share Taurus’s interests (in either taste—cough patchouli cough—or opinion), you may find yourself stuck in a frustrating stalemate. The best way to manage this is to—quite literally—keep score. Make a list of how many times Taurus gets their way, and save the receipts to show that you’ve been more than accommodating. If you gently remind Taurus about the fine art of adaptability, their white-knuckle grip will soften.
What are their biggest turn-ons and turn-offs?
Before you can reap the benefits of a relationship with a Taurus, you must first wine and dine this earth sign like there’s no tomorrow. That doesn’t mean you need to overspend (remember, Taurus is very financially conscious)—instead, you should plan romantic dates that match your budget. Don’t be ostentatious—but also don’t be cheap. Since Taurus is the most epicurean sign of the zodiac, they’d love a home-cooked meal followed by a decadent sweet from a charming old-school bakery. For an extra-sexy evening, you may want to surprise your Taurus boo with champagne on ice, chocolate-dipped strawberries, and fresh rose petals splayed across smooth satin linens. It may sound cheesy—but hey! Taurus is all about that ~sensual~ life.
On the flip side, there’s nothing that bothers Taurus more than feeling like an afterthought. Don’t even think about trying to woo this bull with some cheap, last-minute airport tchotchke. Similarly, canceling plans with a Taurus is a big no-no. If you’re still trying to figure out your calendar, hold off on scheduling a date. Taurus takes commitment extremely seriously, so erratic planning is a massive turn-off. At the end of the day, pleasing a Taurus is actually quite simple: Celebrate your partnership with thoughtful gifts, schedule quality time in advance, and always let them be right. (I know, but it’s true.)
Their best and worst matches?
While it’s easy to fall in love with Taurus, fellow earth signs Virgo and Capricorn are most charmed by this celestial bull. Virgo appreciates Taurus’s consistency, and Capricorn’s serious work ethic perfectly complements Taurus’s love of stability. However, Taurus is known to lock horns with theatrical Leo and progressive Aquarius. These signs are also extraordinarily strong-willed, so the relationship can feel like a tug-of-war.
